can you figure out love?
06 Dec 2010 Leave a Comment
Love is a complicated affair
it can take you up to 1 day, 1 month, 1 year, 1 decade, 1 whole life to either solve it, hate it or Love it.
Love, do you know the real meaning of it? In layman term, it means simply, I want to be with you. But do you really know the meaning of LOVE? I can’t really remember who said it but’ the person said that LOVE means; loving the person shit*(what you normally do in the bathroom), the ugliest side of the person(the fart smell, the bad breath, the stinking feet after wearing sport shoe). that’s call LOVE. so do you know what love means now?
If at this point you’re saying “ewwwww”, “OMGosh”, “WTFish”, “WTHeaven” and you’re in a relationship and you think that your realtionship is “LOVE” then your not in love at all. You are just liking him or her at this point, no love at all.
Back to topic, “it can take you up to 1 day, 1 month, 1 year, 1 decade, 1 whole life to either solve it, hate it or Love it.”
I am sick of seeing people going into relationships that they know it’s not real, and that they’re bluffing themselves just because they need want one. I’m not saying it’s wrong to go into a relationship ( people say it’s for experience purposes but I’m still against it) but if you want a relationship so badly can you please go into one because of real love? Not because of pity, force, anxiety, or simply just because you have no other option to choose from. It’s just depressing to see young people doing it. They’re giving away part of their heart to this “person” who might not be ending up at the alter to say “I Do”. sad right? yah i know.
But don’t you want to find someone, that special “someone”. That you can give your entire heart to him or her? and know that you have done your part as the other party by giving your full heart to him or her, just because he or she is worth it?
Out from faithfulness, let’s talk about complications(love triangle).
It is common, counsel many and know that love triangle is common. like a situation where. A likes B, B likes C, C likes D but D likes A. well, not really a triangle but you get the idea.
how can you get out of it? Psycho yourself? yah, true, I have this old saying, “If it’s yours, It’s yours”. really, you either back it out or pursue it, where it can take up to “1 day, 1 month, 1 year, 1 ……”.
There’s a few ways to psycho yourself:
- He/she is a Je*k/B*tch (whatever you can think of)
- He/she is making use of me ( oh no this won’t do, some people rather be made used then never been used)
He/she is not worth my waiting…- He/she has CHANGED.
These are a few but well, the only good one here is the last one, positive and not cursing. Because when you curse your body gets old easily, so nono for that. See, i cancel the third one>? It dosen’t really help, if you don’t have a strong mindset about and if you’re just saying it and not believing it. Then this won’t do.
As i was saying the last one is GOOD 
because partly, they will changed somehow in time, everybody changed a little and therefore you can find fault with that changed. And that person that you adore, will adore someone else and they will changed for that someone else, so here’s another reason on finding fault with him/her. I don’t say this just because i know but because, i had a “bestfriend” who changed because of some one he adored and soon our friendship was affected and eventually became silent… Nope, This isn’t a love triangle or whatsoever love thinggy, i DO NOT have feelings for him at all. This just prove another thing, when LOVE comes in to the situation, friendship can even be destroyed
Tired and lazy to continue…
Ending up, Love is A Complicated affair.
Ps: you guys wanted something, so here go, read it and enjoy it 
-belovedFish
